| laekin ( @ 2005-08-13 08:19:00 |
Onwards and Upwards
Well for the first time in my RP life, which is about 13 years of time, I got kicked off an RPG.
I was told that there were complaints on the way I played my character. This came as a surprise to me because while I knew there were things that needed to be talked about between myself and the mod, I was never told other people had problems.
I wish I had been. I wish that people had come to me, asked questions told me what was bothering them so that it could have been discussed and changes could have been made rather then a sudden final blow up. Maybe conversations could have happened, understanding could have been reached and this wouldn't have needed to happen.
Communication...
It's so very important in this medium. It is vital to any RP and RPG and if anything I just encourage those folks on my FList who play in RPS on line to keep the lines of communication wide open. The thing that bothers me about this situation is there never was any, even when I asked for it. I thought that it was understood that IC was IC, OOC was OOC and if there were questions they would be raised and addressed. I guess I missed something along the way because I thought things were going good.
So...I was told I had to go. So I went.
Do kind of wish I hadn't seen the advertisement for the character being open posted about 90 seconds after I posted my goodbye. I would have liked to have thought I left some good memories behind.
I don't know.
I guess I never did.
sadsadmonkey I know you have Matthew involved in the game but I'm probably going to keep that plot idea. I was looking forward to writing out that idea of mine and since it's not viable for me now I do want to pursue it where I can.
Onwards and Upwards
Well for the first time in my RP life, which is about 13 years of time, I got kicked off an RPG.
I was told that there were complaints on the way I played my character. This came as a surprise to me because while I knew there were things that needed to be talked about between myself and the mod, I was never told other people had problems.
I wish I had been. I wish that people had come to me, asked questions told me what was bothering them so that it could have been discussed and changes could have been made rather then a sudden final blow up. Maybe conversations could have happened, understanding could have been reached and this wouldn't have needed to happen.
Communication...
It's so very important in this medium. It is vital to any RP and RPG and if anything I just encourage those folks on my FList who play in RPS on line to keep the lines of communication wide open. The thing that bothers me about this situation is there never was any, even when I asked for it. I thought that it was understood that IC was IC, OOC was OOC and if there were questions they would be raised and addressed. I guess I missed something along the way because I thought things were going good.
So...I was told I had to go. So I went.
Do kind of wish I hadn't seen the advertisement for the character being open posted about 90 seconds after I posted my goodbye. I would have liked to have thought I left some good memories behind.
I don't know.
I guess I never did.
Onwards and Upwards